Men’s Brains vs Women’s Brains

I am sure most of you can relate to Mark and his explanations. But what if you discover that your husband’s brain works like that of a woman???

Please advise!



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Individual programs will follow in due course, but here is an overall view:

Friday, January 31- Sunday, February 2… Healing and Harmonising Weekend at 10 and 11/9-13 Hutton Rd, The Entrance N.

Friday, February 7,  at 5 pm. Book Launch at 79 Bay St, Mosman

Friday, February 21 – Feb 23, 2014…Toastmaster Weekend (Hutton Road)

Friday, March 28 – March 30…Emotional Freedom Weekend (Hutton Road)

more to follow

Weekly Musings from Hoi by the Sea – January Week 3

Creating our Days

People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances that they want, and if they can’t find them, make them.

– George Bernard Shaw

What does it mean to make or create our circumstances? What if all thoughts (conscious or unconscious), all our feelings and emotions influence the world as we experience it? Do you believe in the power of intention? 

Take a moment each morning to set an intention for the day, exploring new ideas and making a pact with the force that you believe creates. If you know and believe that your intention, the experience or feeling you want to create, influence the Quantum field, you can become the observer watching circumstances showing up throughout the day that are so amazing and unexpected that they will cause you to experience shivers down your spine. Things will materialize seemingly out of thin air, old friends may call out of the blue –

What are you going to create today?

Weekly Musings from Hoi by the Sea – January Week 2



The PAST wants to be integrated into the PRESENT

So that it need not be repeated in the FUTURE.

The PAST will be repeated until it is at PEACE. (Hausner)


True Happiness is

– to ACT without EFFORT

– to FEEL JOY in what you do

and your ACTIONS will bring RESULT.

Spiritually speaking, lack of effort brings result, not heroic effort.

Weekly musings from Hoi by the Sea / January Week 1


Imagine your own version of a perfect future. See yourself in that future, feel and sense all your desires fulfilled.

Now bring that memory into the present and let it influence your behaviour from now on.

Shed the burden of the past and let the future vision guide you.

That is living backward in time.

Let the future create the present. Live the highest ideal now.


Waking up in the morning, before thinking sets in, you are just yourself, in a state of awareness.

You are NOT what you are thinking. Your thoughts don’t belong to you, they belong to the many roles you play.

Pay attention to the silent observer behind your senses.

Setting Goals instead of New Years Resolutions

I like Jeff’s view on New years resolutions. I am a true believer of creating habits and rituals that give me solutions, rather than ‘re-solutions’.
What I didn’t ever think of are ‘focus days’. Love this idea!
Now I have to think of what to focus on more consciously? – Then block out two 50 minute blocks to really focus on that.

One of the best rituals (if not the best) I have developed is my daily routine of walking to the beach and have my daily swim. That combination of light exercise, with short bursts of running, mingled with meditation and prayer for my day does it for me.

Now I just have to find another one for a one hour meditation during the day or similar.
What are you going to focus on?

Love to hear…